Happy Mother's Day to me!!!
May. 10th, 2009 05:12 pmHad to work today, and have a nasty headache.
However!
Kathy and Garrett cleaned my kitchen, living room, and bathroom and worked on my screened porch!
The bad news is, a bird got in, and the cats killed it. Garrett buried it.
I can't WAIT to get home and see the house!
Somehow I have to get my mother's gift delivered to her - I really don't want to go by their house.
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Ended up calling Mom to wish her Happy Mother's Day and spoke briefly to my Dad. I finally had the courage to tell him that I really don't feel comfortable coming to their house - that I have some problems with coming there, for a number of reasons, and that I promise to tell them when I'm ready and ask about coming, and that I don't like having to come up with excuses each time they ask me. I'm very proud of myself for managing this and am looking forward to telling my therapist I did it - we talked about the need to do it the last time I visited. I feel slightly sick at my stomach now, but it has been said, and it needed to be said, and I did it without falling completely apart.
My head, however, has taken a turn for the worse, so I'm really glad the day is almost over!
Yay clean house!
ETA: House looks great - wow they got a lot of trash pulled together and out! I'm SO thrilled!
However!
Kathy and Garrett cleaned my kitchen, living room, and bathroom and worked on my screened porch!
The bad news is, a bird got in, and the cats killed it. Garrett buried it.
I can't WAIT to get home and see the house!
Somehow I have to get my mother's gift delivered to her - I really don't want to go by their house.
____________
Ended up calling Mom to wish her Happy Mother's Day and spoke briefly to my Dad. I finally had the courage to tell him that I really don't feel comfortable coming to their house - that I have some problems with coming there, for a number of reasons, and that I promise to tell them when I'm ready and ask about coming, and that I don't like having to come up with excuses each time they ask me. I'm very proud of myself for managing this and am looking forward to telling my therapist I did it - we talked about the need to do it the last time I visited. I feel slightly sick at my stomach now, but it has been said, and it needed to be said, and I did it without falling completely apart.
My head, however, has taken a turn for the worse, so I'm really glad the day is almost over!
Yay clean house!
ETA: House looks great - wow they got a lot of trash pulled together and out! I'm SO thrilled!